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Frequently Asked Questions

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General Help
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Contacting Other Members
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General Helpto top

How does the GG site work?

The GG website provides a safe, secure and anonymous way to find and communicate with people of your choice. In a nutshell, you choose a username (a screen name or alias) and set up a profile describing yourself and the type of person and relationship your are looking for. You can view other people's profiles by searching the site and in turn they can view your profile. When you find someone that interests you, you can send a message via the site to their username. The message is sent to their email address from your username - your real name and email address are never shown. In turn you may receive messages from other members in your email inbox. These messages will be from their username and not their real email address, protecting both your and their privacy. When you are ready you may choose to tell the other member your real contact details.

What is the difference between a member and a subscriber?

Everyone who registers and sets up a profile is a member. To send messages you need to be a paying subscriber.

Is it free, or is there a catch?

To become a member is free. Members can use every feature of the site and can receive anonymous email through the site, but only paying subscribers can send anonymous emails. Our subscription rates are very reasonable, at only £39.95 for a whole year, we are the best value for money in the UK.

Why can't I send messages?

To send messages you must be a subscriber. See above.

Is my privacy respected?

Yes! We will never give your details to other members or use your details for any purpose without your permission.

Is the content censored?

As a rule no. We're not here to police our members. However, we reserve the right to hide, delete or modify unacceptable profiles. Amongst other reasons we reserve the right to delete or modify profiles that:

  • Contain contact information such as email addresses, ICQ numbers, Telephone numbers, addresses, etc.
  • Are illegal, e.g. under 18 years of age or solicit contact from people under 18 years.
  • Are racist, or attack other groups or religions
Please refer to our terms of use for full details.

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I've forgotten my login details. How do I find them?

Easy! Just click on the "Password Forgotten" link, insert your email address in the form and we'll mail them to you. If you still have a problem, please contact us.

Can I change my Password?

No. For security reasons this is not possible

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Why must I set up a profile to use the site?

To view member profiles you need to become a member and set up a profile. Remember, it's free to become a member.

Do I have to pay to set up a profile?

No. To set up a profile you need only become a free member; you only need to become a (paying) subscriber when you want to send messages to other members.

How do I set up my Profile?

If you are not yet a member, start by joining GG for free use the above link "FREE Registration". If you're already a member, just Login.

Can I change my Username?

No.

How do I change my Profile?

Login and go to "My Space" and follow the edit instructions

How do I delete my profile?

Login and go to "My Space", click the 'Delete' box on the left the click the button at the bottom of the page. NB: This process can be reversed by editing your details using the "VIEW/AMEND" link. Your profile will no longer be visable to other members.

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How do I add a photo to my profile?

The first chance is during your initial registration, where you can upload 1 picture. As a subscriber, go to "My Space" then "AMEND/VIEW" where you can upload a 4 more pictures.

Does my photo automatically show on my profile?

Yes. All newly uploaded photos are checked on a regular basis by our support staff. Photos are usually checked within 24 hours of upload, but this may be longer at times of high demand, and on weekends when we have fewer staff on duty. If a photo does not meet with our approval then it will be deleted.

Are there any specific requirements for adding photos?

Yes. Your photo must either be in JPEG, GIF or BMP format. Your photo must be less than 600kB, but there is no restriction on the dimensions of the image you upload. We will automatically resize it if it is too large.

Why did my photo disappear from my profile?

Your photo may be deleted if it does not comply with our technical requirements, is obscene or is a picture of a celebrity or other copyrighted material such as cartoon pictures.

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How do I search?

For a quick and simple search, specify your requirements in the form and click 'Search'. For more advanced search options use the filters 'Ethnicity' or 'Status' in conjunction with the category search.

How do I search for a specific member?

Easy! Using the Find By Member No at the bottom of the search page, enter the other person's Member ID and click 'Find Member'.

Why do I not get any results when I search?

You are most probably making your search criteria too narrow. Try relaxing your requirements a bit, e.g. a wider age range, etc. If you are looking for an Asian man in the south west, in an open relationship, chances are you will not get many results!

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How do I contact another member?

When you view another member's profile you will see a 'REPLY FORM' link. Click this link and then enter your message in the text box provided and then click send.

Will any of my details be exposed?

No! The message sent to the other member will only contain your username, your message and brief instructions telling them how to reply.

How do I reply to messages from other members?

Login to the site and go to "My Space" where you will see how many messages you have received. A link is available that will take you to their profile. Remember, you need to be a subscriber to send messages.

Must I be a Subscriber to receive messages?

No, you will receive messages sent to your username even if you are not a Subscriber. You will, however, need to be a subscriber to reply.

I accidentally deleted a message, can you help?

No. Sorry, we cannot retrieve the content of messages once they have been deleted.

I'd prefer not to receive messages in my regular email inbox. Can you help?

We suggest you set up a free Web-based mail account with a service such as Hotmail and use this email address in your profile. Note that there is a potential down side to using free email services. Some of them disable your account if you do not check it regularly. In that case the email other members send to you will be lost and, if we receive several consecutive bounces from your address, we may hide or remove your profile.

Money Helpto top

What does it cost to subscribe to GayGordon?

We offer a range of competitive subscription packages, please visit our Upgrade Now section after login for details.

Is it safe to enter my credit card details on the site?

Yes. Credit card payments are processed using our World Pay card-processing gateway. World Pay is one of the largest and most respected global card processing companies. All your card details are encrypted for maximum security whilst travelling over the Internet. Further, no credit card details are stored anywhere on our site.

What will appear on my credit card account?

Payments will be shown as a purchase from Graystone LA Ltd, which is the name of the engine which drives this site.

Will my subscription automatically be renewed?

No. Subscriptions are never automatically renewed.

I have not used all of my subscription and want to delete my profile. Will I be refunded the balance?

No, unused portions of a subscription are not refundable. Deleting your profile will result in your unused subscription being lost.

Will my profile remain on the site after my subscription ends?

Yes. You will however need to subscribe again if you want to contact other members again in future.